Hey Lazlow! I've heard a lot of people with this problem as well, but I think we've found the solution. Give this a try, and let me know if it works for you, okay? If it does, we can make sure everyone knows to give it a try when they have the issue.
1. Remove batteries from the controller
2. Plug the controller into the console with a USB cord
3. Hard reset the console (turn off, remove power source, turn back on)
4. While console is powering on, hit the bind button on the left side 3x
5. After the console is at the Dashboard, hit the bind button on the controller 3x.
6. Profit, because the controller should stay connected now.
Put the batteries back in and go wireless.
Esto lo pusieron como oficial respuesta en un foto de Xbox.com y varias respuestas fueron positivas
No queda muy claro ya que cuando está conectado por cable el botón de sincronización del control no está habilitado. Estaría genial una traducción a español con los términos exactos